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Anonymous asked:

You should post some aftercare awareness stuff

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mysterywriteher:

That’s an excellent idea.

Fellas, ladies: I can not stress to you enough the importance of aftercare. If you’re into rough, degrading, humiliating sex at all, aftercare needs to happen. Discuss this with your partner ahead of time and see which kind of aftercare they’re going to need. Keep in mind, it might change depending on their mood and depending on what kind of sexual activities you’re about to engage in / have engaged in. It can range from holding your partner tight, cuddling, paying them compliments or in some cases even leaving them alone for a while. 

This is a great way to show your partner you respect her, which is extremely important. Dominating her is part of the kink. Aftercare is the transition back into reality. 

Whatever you do, understand that aftercare is extremely important —- crucial even. If you act like it isn’t, you’ll do yourself and your partner a serious disservice. 

“Your voice.. It just feels like home. I miss it. I miss all of you so much.”
— I’m sorry - hoetion (via perfect)

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transdimensionalboundaries:

dirtybetanerd:

kedreeva:

8bitrevolver:

This was meant to be a quick warm up, but it turned into a comic that I’ve wanted to draw for a while. This is something that is extremely important to me, and I appreciate it if you read it.

A while ago, I heard a story that broke my heart. A family went a cat shelter to adopt. The daughter fell in love with a 3-legged cat. The father straight up said “absolutely not”. Because he was missing a leg. That cat was that close to having a family that loved him, but the missing leg held him back. Why?!

Many people have the initial instinct of “nope” when they see an imperfect animal. I get it, but less-adoptable does NOT mean less loveable. 9 out of 10 people will choose a kitten over an adult cat. And those 10% that would get an adult cat often overlook “different” animals.

All I want people to do is be open to the idea of having a “different” pet in their lives. Choose the pet that you fall in love with, but at least give all of them a fair shot at winning your heart.

Don’t dismiss them, they deserve a loving home just as much as any other cat. They still purr, they still love a warm lap, they still play, they still love you. Trust me, next time you are in the market for a new kitty, just go over to that one cat that’s missing an eye and see what he’s all about!

Let me tell to you a thing.

This is Lenore. I first saw her in a little cage at the Petco I frequent (I used to take my parents’ dog in for puppy play time), and she looked like the grouchiest, old, crotchety cat in the world, and I fell instantly in love. She was cranky, she was anti-social, hanging out at the back of her cage. Her fur was matted because she wouldn’t let the groomers near her.

She was perfect.

But I didn’t have a place for her. I wasn’t living in my own space yet, and where I was, I wasn’t allowed cats. So I pressed my face to the bars of her cage and I promised that if no one had adopted her by the time I’d bought a house, I would come back for her.

I visited her every week for over six months while I looked for a house. At one point, they had to just shave her entire rear-end because the mats or fur were so bad. They told me she clawed the heck outta the groomer that did it, screamed the entire time, and spent the next two days growling at anyone that came near the cage.

A couple of weeks later, I closed on my house. I went back and I got an employee, and I said: “That one. I need that cat.”

They got the paperwork and the lady who ran the rescue that was bringing the cats in told me that Lenore (at the time, Lila) was 8 years old, had been owned by an elderly lady who had died, and brought in to a different rescue, who’d had her for six months on top of the time I’d been seeing her at Petco.

This kitty had been living in a 3x3’ cube for over a YEAR because she was older and “less adoptable.”

I signed the paperwork, put her in a cat carrier, and drove her to my new home. I had pretty much nothing; a bed, an old couch, a couple of bookcases, and a tank of mice I called “Cat TV”. I let her out of the carrier and onto my bed, and I told her “I told you I would come back for you when I had a place. It’s not much, but it’s yours too now.”

Lenore spent the next three days straight purring non-stop. She followed me around the house purring. Sat next to me purring. Slept next to me purring. Leaning into every touch, purring, purring, always purring. She still purrs if you so much as think about petting her. She’s amazing, and I love her.

So, you know, if you’re thinking about adopting, and you see a beast that others consider “less adoptable,” think about Lenore.

FUCKING IMPORTANT

The STORY THOUGH.

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blackumi:

What in fucks name is this flying water

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funny-pictures-uk:

Can an apology ever be too specific?

spinsterprivilege:

noirnites:

Macabre statues to keep me company outside my new office.

Congratulations on the job. I didn’t know Hell was even hiring.

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bogleech:

IF YOU DO NOT REBLOG THIS A SKELETON WILL SNEAK INTO YOUR HOUSE AND MAKE AN ELABORATE SANDWICH AND USE THE SAME EXACT KNIFE FOR EVERY CONDIMENT WITHOUT CLEANING IT OFF

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kelekelo:

look at the bug it looks like its wearing fuzzy boots

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liza-land:

how I wear art is none of your business

Love this.

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-ahscircus:

american horror story blog

She rocked all those parts, I can’t wait to see her play Elsa in Freak Show.

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taco-bell-rey:

Accidentally clicking on a porn blog

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We all have one person where we can look at them and everything bad fades into the background. We can talk to that person for hours and not once get bored. We can think of a thousand things we love about them, then think of a thousand more. I hope one day, that person feels the same about you.